For those who are interested, a copy of some twitter rambles of today. Not drama, not causing wank, not subtweeting. The original flavor rambling.

(text copypasta, typos and all, with no likes, RTs and username for practicality)


1. It makes me... think... when I see all of those Lewd / Kinky manga caps accounts having m/f and f/f content but not m/m
 
And I know their fanbase isn't fully male


1.1. It's almost like... the more distant from straight male tastes, the more it is treated as disgusting / perverted / a sick fetish that should not be put together with "regular" material?
 
Hmmmm....


2. The double-bind of being a LGBT woman: torn between wanting more of sexy stuff with women but completely TIRED of being treated as a piece of meat.
 
Cause no, it's not as inoffensive as overexcited 14yo fans on anime cons, you nerds, it's the background radiation of our lives

2.1. It's what makes us afraid of being predatory by feeling aroused by other women ._. We know how shit it is and don't want to impose it on anybody, since sexuality is something imposed on women instead of women enjoying it and shit accordibg to current mores...


3. Sometimes I think all of that drama is about people afraid men will start being treated like women
 
And since internalized misogyny is a thing, young trans men and afab nb people go hard on this to show they aren't stupid sexually available women

3.1. Cause yeah, it's female nature to be put upon by objectification BS, see all of those trans women dressing sexy with miniskirts and heels /SARCASM

3.2. Cause a woman eho does not like skirts and dresses hates herself OMG
 
And the worst thing we can do to men and people who aren't women is making them sexy without being uber-virile OMGGGGG
 
The sad thing is that I saw this BS on PROGRESSIVE circles

3.3 Cause yeah, being feminine = still asking for it even in 2019


4.  I guess all of it is why I double down on my preferences for skinny, at least center or feminine of center guys
 
It's everything people say it's wrong to like after 16 + I'm not giving free eye candy for the guys who can't act like humans around LGBT women

4.1. I still like women in all the spectrum of presentation! But REAL WORLD objectification and fetishization + radfem "it's good for you / eating your vegetables" discourse makes me wary of expressing this side of me too much :/

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